Holden Place Therapy is proud to announce a new collaborative partnership with The Women's Hormone Clinic, a leading specialist clinic providing expert, evidence-based hormonal health support for women across the UK.

As a Trusted Partner, Claire Dale is listed as a recommended therapist within the clinic's network, offering a joined-up pathway for women who would benefit from both specialist hormone treatment and dedicated emotional and psychological support.

Sunday March 15th, is Mother's Day in the UK. As a therapist working with grief and bereavement, I know this day is rarely simple.

The feelings can begin weeks before when the shops start filling up with cards, flowers, and carefully curated gift sets. There's no escape from it. Social media fills with glowing images of smiling mothers, daughters, and sons. And if you've lost your mum through death, estrangement, divorce, abandonment, addiction, or so many other painful ways, it can feel like a spotlight shines on what's missing in your life.

As menopause is sometimes only half the story: Our new collaboration supporting Women in the North West

For years, women have been told their symptoms are “just hormones” or “just stress.” The reality is often both.

That’s why Dr Lucy Mather, founder of Jaya Life, and counsellor Claire Dale of Holden Place Therapy have formed a trusted partnership to ensure women aged 40–60 don’t fall through the gaps between medical and emotional care.

“I don’t feel like myself anymore”. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Here’s why therapy and menopause care go hand in hand.

Time to Talk Day: Why Finding the Right Person to Talk to Matters

Thursday February 5th is Time to Talk Day, an important reminder that conversations about mental health and emotional struggles shouldn’t be off limits. Opening up is crucial, but when you’re going through something difficult, who you talk to can make all the difference.

When we lose a parent as an adult, people often assume we’ll cope better. We’re grown, independent, perhaps even parents ourselves. Yet many clients tell me that this particular loss hits harder and deeper than they expected. It’s not just the absence of the person, it’s the shifting of the ground beneath us.

How Long Will Grief Last?   

It’s one of the most common questions people ask in therapy: “How long will this grief last?”

It’s an understandable question, and a heartbreaking one. When we’re in the depths of loss, we long for someone to tell us how long this pain will last, when we’ll feel ‘normal’ again, and when life might stop hurting quite so much.

“I feel so guilty.”
It’s a phrase I hear often in therapy, and rarely from someone who’s done anything wrong.

There’s guilt for not being there at the end, guilt for surviving, guilt for laughing, for forgetting for a moment, for moving forward, for feeling ok, even briefly. It’s as though part of the grieving mind believes that feeling bad is a sign of love, or that to suffer greatly is somehow to stay loyal and not forget them.